Tip of the Month

APRIL 2014 GET TO YES FASTER ...

This from my wonderful new-TENOR-friend, Dean Minuto, a man of enormous energy, wit and charm ... and a master at sales technique-in a nutshell-by discerning the exact needs of a client and furnishing him with the ultimate answer he has been seeking ... even though he/she possibly didn't even know it existed, for him/herself!

This is a fascinating and motivational read: Dean's The One-Page Sales Coach (New and Revised) as reviewed by JOHN DAME, VISTAGE CHAIR: "Every once in a while a book comes along without padding, frills, or two many semicolons and gets right to the point, The One-Page Sales Coach is like getting the playbook for the Super Bowl Championship before the game and finding it is only one page long ... then winning with that game plan. Dean lays out a readable, step-by-step process to get yes from anyone, anyplace, anytime. I could not put it down."

 

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Thursday, April 24th



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YESCALATE® is a series of best practice tips that you (and your Team) can use today to GET TO YES FASTER® and more often.

(This email tip now goes out to 3,679 Executiveswho have requested to stay in contact with me.)

In this Tip:
It's your PURPOSE.
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How your Purpose helps you Get to Yes Faster®,
And can even get people to sing for you.
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Email four in a 4-part series on what I'm calling The NEW Four P's of Marketing and Sales.)
The last 3 Tips have focused on People, Practice & Problems...

Today let's focus on PURPOSE.

Last week I was singing, a full-out beautiful opera note,in the Los Angeles home of the former Principal Baritone
of the Metropolitan Opera.

Me? SINGING?? It is impossible.(Just ask any member of my family.) But then again, nothing is impossible when you meet a Master who understands the mechanics.

When you meet someone with Purpose-Suddenly you believe the impossible is possible.
And it is.

On my westbound flight last Tuesday night, a Veteran boarded late and sat next to me wearing a black hat with the gold letters indicating the name of the ship he had served on... I asked him about his time on that submarine.

And then I thanked him for his service to me and my family.

The man's name, I quickly learned, is Richard Fredrick's, And he is the former Principal Baritone with the Metropolitan Opera.

We then discussed our shared love of music. Richard has performed around the world. We talked about the great performers he knew and the great performers he's helped with their voices over the years.

As Richard shared with me even the great performers sometimes lose their voices because they never really understood the mechanics underneath their voice that made them successful.

Richard had studied the mechanics (the mechanics of sound...Sonar on a submarine...Singing on stage...)and he was convinced that everyone could sing.

Richard said "You know what?
Everyone can sing!
I believe everyone can sing and I believe everyone has a great voice inside them if they only knew how to set it free!"

(Not me. I thought to myself...)

And then he looked at me and said "YOU, Dean, you have a great voice inside you!And I want to help you free it.I want you to hear it for the first time.You won't believe it!I will teach you, and you will be singing within 30 minutes.You'll be singing the most beautiful Opera note you ever heard! And it's going to be so much fun!"

Richard's passion for what he does was Manifest. His Belief in Positive Outcomes. His Purpose.

And when it comes to influence, to persuasion, to Getting to Yes with People-Purpose beats Price, ALWAYS.

Think about the great products and great companies that people love to buy from and to work for...
Apple....
IBM...
Mercedes....

They thrill people with their products and services. And nobody buys from them because of price.

They are clear on their purpose.

They focus on making a difference-the positive outcomes they create.
On purpose.
With purpose.

Is your purpose so clear, so evident, that people you interact with can feel it?Is it manifest to your Team?

Better than sell 'em can you get 'em to sing?

I gave 5 Talks in 5 days last week... Five different cities...on two Coasts...Ending with a sold out Workshop in Mission Viejo. (True, not a bad place to end an exhausting week... but it was a hard and awesome week.)And in the middle of that week while in LA,after speaking for 6 Hrs straight,I had a singing Lesson from the great Baritone, Richard Fredricks.

Richard has sung on stages all over the world with his famous voice-He sang on The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson,
He even appeared as himself and several episodes of The Odd Couple back in the 70s.

His enthusiasm for singing and his complete and total Belief that anyone can sing brought me to his home for a lesson.

Your Purpose becomes manifest to others When people feel the passion you have for what you do and what you have done for othersSelling is a transfer of emotion.

When you're clear on your purpose When you're clear on what you can accomplish and why you're doing what you're doing People can feel that, and it is infectious.They want to say YES to you.

"Anyone can sing. It's about understanding the mechanics."

By the end of the lesson he had me singing It was one perfect note. He was singing with me and he recorded it.
If you were to play that tape back you would hear my voice and the pure sound of his voice-And the sound was beautiful.

Because he is a Master at what he does and what he does is get people to release that beautiful voice.

He reveals the voice that you never knew that you had within you.

So here are a few questions for you and your Team:  What do you release for your clients?In what way do you empower your clients? In what way are you manifesting your purpose?

It's not about price it's about purpose.

"Anyone can sing. It's about understanding the mechanics."

And guess what? "Anyone can sell. It's about understanding the mechanics."

Selling is about the transfer of emotion What is the source of that emotion? It is belief. Your belief in the positive outcomes that you and your Team create in the World.

Some people call that faith There is an ancient phrase Found in nearly every book of religion or philosophy "They themselves are makers of themselves."

And here is another "For those who have faith even more shall be given."

Focus on your purpose Forget about the price.

The more clear you and your team are on your purpose the more clear your customers will be on why they should buy from you ...why they should say yes to you.

And you can learn to Get to Yes Faster®  If you understand the mechanics of getting to yes.

I teach those mechanics in my YESCALATE® Talk I help people focus on the outcomes they can create with those they want to influence.

I hope you find these tip emails of value.Thank you for allowing me to contribute.

With your success in mind,


CLICK LINKS BELOW TO VIEW PREVIOUS TIPS...

MARCH 14 -
MY VOCAL CREDO

JANUARY 14 -
A THE FIVE C'S REVISITED

DECEMBER 13 -
A CHALLENGE FOR SERIOUS SINGERS 

OCTOBER 13 -
WLARYNGITIS, ANYONE?

SEPTEMBER 13 -
WHAT TO WITE.... RENATA SCOTTO?

AUGUST 13 -
HOW TO FIX YOUR “WOBBLE” AND SINGING UNDER PITCH!

JULY 13 -
FROM THE LIPS OF OPERA GREATS OF THE PAST

JUNE 13 -
ROTATING EVERY HIGH NOTE

APRIL 13 - MY HIATUS

OCTOBER 12 - BACKWARD BREATHING (CONTINUED)

SEPTEMBER 12
-
BACKWARD BREATHING

MAY 12- WHY GOOD SINGERS GET INTO TROUBLE (And retire early!)

APRIL 12- THE FIVE “C’s!” (REVISITED AND MARGINALLY UPDATED)

MARCH 12- PROACTIVE

FEBRUARY 12- PROACTIVE

JANUARY 12- PROACTIVE

DECEMBER 11 - THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN (Revisited)

NOVEMBER 11 - THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN

OCTOBER 11 -  MY CORDS AREN’T WORKING
 

SEPTEMBER 11 - HELLO FROM CRESTON, BC, CANADA

AUGUST 11 - PERSEVERANCE THE OTHER SIDE-(RESPONSE)

JULY 11 - PERSEVERANCE THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN

JUNE 11
- PERSEVERANCE

MAY 11 - ENERGY!

APRIL 11 - EXTERNALIZING SUPPORT

MARCH 11 - THE IMPORTANCE OF DICTION

FEBRUARY 11 - RESPONSE TO LAST MONTHS TIP

JANUARY 11 - LET'S TRY THIS

DECEMBER 10 - THE FUNCTION OF THE MOUTH... IN SINGING

NOVEMBER 10 - BOY SOPRANO TO YOUNG MAN’S VOICE

OCTOBER 10
- TOOLS OF THE TRADE (i.e. LEARNING REPERTOIRE)

SEPTEMBER 10 - TOOLS OF THE TRADE

AUGUST 10 - JOIN A CHORUS (Addendum)

JULY 10 - JOIN A CHORUS

JUNE 10 - HI THERE SINGERS!
 

MAY 10 - SINGING IS WORK

APRIL 10 - THE FIVE “C’s!”

MARCH 10 - LEARNING REPERTOIRE

FEBRUARY 10 - THE TIGHT JAW

JANUARY 10 - BALANCING THE VOICE

DECEMBER 09 - LOVE CAN REIGN - LINK

NOVEMBER 09 - ABSENCE OF EXCESSIVE TENSION

OCTOBER 09 - YOUR OTHER BEST FRIEND - YOUR MIRROR

SEPTEMBER 09 - EVERYONE CAN SING!

AUGUST 09 - LATENT HERNIAS AND OTHER SUPPORT PROBLEMS

JULY 09 - PRINCE IMRAN RAZA STATESMAN/ROCK STAR

JUNE 09 - ANOTHER NATURAL SINGER - DAVID BURKE

MAY 09 -DISCOVERY OF VOIC
E

APRIL 09 - I'M SICK, BUT I HAVE TO PERFORM TONIGHT  Part 2

MARCH 09 - I'M SICK, BUT I HAVE TO PERFORM TONIGHT

FEBRUARY 09 - SINGING IN ENGLISH

JANUARY 09 - GETTING AN AGENT AND/OR MANAGER (Part 4)

DECEMBER 08 - GETTING AN AGENT AND/OR MANAGER (Part 3)

NOVEMBER 08 -
GETTING AN AGENT AND/OR MANAGER (Part 2)

OCTOBER 08 - GETTING AN AGENT AND/OR MANAGER (Part 1)

SEPTEMBER 08 - HEAVY BREATHING ADVISED FOR JOCKS

AUGUST 08 -  THE VAGARIES OF AUDITIONS AND AUDITIONING (Part 3)

JULY 08 -
THE VAGARIES OF AUDITIONS AND AUDITIONING (Part 2)

JUNE 08 -
THE VAGARIES OF AUDITIONS AND AUDITIONING (Part 1)

MAY 08 - ABSENCE OF TENSION

APRIL 08 -
THE FLAT TONGUE TECHNIQUE AND HOW DO YOU MAKE A VOWEL

MARCH 08  - THE VOICE COACHING THAT  MADE MY CAREER

FEBRUARY 08 - WHAT ARE YOU SINGING?

JANUARY 08 -
VIBRATO/WOBBLE

DECEMBER 07 - BREATHING REVISITED

NOVEMBER  07 - HOW TO KILL A COLD IN FIVE DAYS

OCTOBER 07 - A BIT MORE SUPPORT

SEPTEMBER 07 - MORE SUPPORT

AUGUST 07 - INTRO & BREATHING/SUPPORT